Chris_MacMahon
August 4th, 2002, 01:21 AM
last night before going to bed my g/f's grandmother was babysitting our boys (3, & 1, both born in october).
she told my g/f, that the elder boy would not goto sleep, we knew that would happen..so she put him up to bed, the next door neighbors came around (14, & 8 both girls), the 14 comforted him..they left..our 3 yr old came down and the 14 yr old came back and took him up for 1/2 hour.
after she leaves our boy comes down and says to gram, <n r> pulled my boxers down, pulled her pants down.gram said that he should talk to his mother and me about this in the am...
we stress out and don't sleep well...the 14 yr old girl is our babysitter, one that they trust, and love.
next morning at breakfast we ask him how is night was and what happened.
<n r> pulled my boxers down amd her pants down, and did this (guesters and up and down motion)
{i asked} with her hands.
no with her bum.
the killer of all of this is that our 3 yr old does not know device a into slot a.
now i can't sleep, pissed off, and above all, concerned that the 14 yr old learnd that what she did was ok, because it happened to her.. her grand mother is basically the primary care person, and she does not belive our boy, does not think that granddaughter is able to do so..i can see that, i mean if someone told me that my sister/mother/g/f sexuall assalted someone i would not belive them, unless the its a kid who has NO idea about sex to begin with.
i belived my boy right from the get go, but to make me 150% sure that sometihing happened last night was, when the 14 yr old girl came over and asked our kid what happened last night his response was, not to tell anyone not even gram it was our little secret...
and she was trying to reason with us, instead of saying 'i did nothing' the response was but i love kids soooo much.. i'm sorry i just need to rant i'm the only one up right now and i just need to talk about this.
she told my g/f, that the elder boy would not goto sleep, we knew that would happen..so she put him up to bed, the next door neighbors came around (14, & 8 both girls), the 14 comforted him..they left..our 3 yr old came down and the 14 yr old came back and took him up for 1/2 hour.
after she leaves our boy comes down and says to gram, <n r> pulled my boxers down, pulled her pants down.gram said that he should talk to his mother and me about this in the am...
we stress out and don't sleep well...the 14 yr old girl is our babysitter, one that they trust, and love.
next morning at breakfast we ask him how is night was and what happened.
<n r> pulled my boxers down amd her pants down, and did this (guesters and up and down motion)
{i asked} with her hands.
no with her bum.
the killer of all of this is that our 3 yr old does not know device a into slot a.
now i can't sleep, pissed off, and above all, concerned that the 14 yr old learnd that what she did was ok, because it happened to her.. her grand mother is basically the primary care person, and she does not belive our boy, does not think that granddaughter is able to do so..i can see that, i mean if someone told me that my sister/mother/g/f sexuall assalted someone i would not belive them, unless the its a kid who has NO idea about sex to begin with.
i belived my boy right from the get go, but to make me 150% sure that sometihing happened last night was, when the 14 yr old girl came over and asked our kid what happened last night his response was, not to tell anyone not even gram it was our little secret...
and she was trying to reason with us, instead of saying 'i did nothing' the response was but i love kids soooo much.. i'm sorry i just need to rant i'm the only one up right now and i just need to talk about this.