pokes head out his rabbit holeQuote:
Originally Posted by Orangeman
What's that?
:devil:
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pokes head out his rabbit holeQuote:
Originally Posted by Orangeman
What's that?
:devil:
What in that she's married to someone who is self deluded ? :devil:Quote:
Originally Posted by PreciousAngelJS25
According to this thread, or at least Adepts interpretation, ANY transgression from the 'I only want you & you alone & nobody else ever even in my mind for a passing moment' is adultery.
Well thats just a 'crock of sh!t' - no way has any 'sexual being' not at least momentarily considered 'a.n.other' - acting on it, is what counts (now if you want to have a debate where the 'line' is on this, then thats another matter) - so that's the second poll I shan't be voting on :p
I specifically said that this was MY opinion - but not the way you report it here. ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by confus-ed
Fidelity to me is not just phtsical, it is also emotional. It's not a quaestion of "wanting" or "having", it's all about "being" for me. Have I in the past and do I today have thoughts that are not directed at my wife? Of course I do.
But I choose not to dwell on them.
My comments do not necessarily reflect those of the thread starter.
One of the best explanations I've heard. you don't have to have sex to cheat, and I think if you asked most women which would be more painful to them a purely physical affair, or a purely emotional one, I think most would choose the emotional one. . . . . at least that's what my wife says.Quote:
Originally Posted by a d e p t
That is what they say when they are having a physical oneQuote:
Originally Posted by kato2274
Precisous, you are young still, your interest will start to wain, maybe find a new guy, one day you will cheat, it is in the "oh so mature" female blood.
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Originally Posted by Cleetus
:cheers: to that!.
:drink:
Having fantasies about another is a normal part of life. I have been faithfull for eighteen years, that doesn't mean I haven't had thoughts. H3ll, sometimes those thoughts make for more interesting latenight entertainment if you get my drift.Quote:
Originally Posted by a d e p t
So THAT'S where all the kleenex and lotion has been disappearing too all this time!!! :p :pQuote:
Originally Posted by jitBob
Well in defense of my friend (Spork's girlfriend) I will say I don't think she was a fool at all. From my understanding they work together for a long time and became really good friends. She told me he was in a drawn-out tired relationship with a no-so-attrative prude. They met and fell in love as friends. He dumped the other girl and Started dating my friend. But yeah they got it on before he dumped the other girl.Quote:
Originally Posted by 3fingersalute
I don't think once a cheat always a cheat. You have to consider age. At least I think you do. When you are young don't always make good choices.
I have cheated on guys before but that doesn't mean I have cheated on them all. The one guy I really loved I would have never cheated on. But I guess he didn't feel the same :sad:
If your not married or engaged is it really cheating anyway?
Don't know, that's a good question. I still think in his case, or even yours, cheating (if you wanna call it that) on your b/f or g/f is a low down and dirty thing to do. If you want out of the relationship or have found somebody else you want to be with, have the decency to cut it off with who you're currently with before moving into another bed.Quote:
Originally Posted by Seeker
That's just my opinion, I know many would not agree.
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Originally Posted by PuterGeekGirl
I agree with you 100% and I think most people would agree that would be the "right" thing to do. But we humans don't always make the best choices.Quote:
Originally Posted by 3fingersalute
I guess IMO all is forgiven unless you cheat on your Fiancé or Spouse.
Don't I know it!Quote:
Originally Posted by Seeker
Even then, things can be worked out. It all depends on why it was done and whether or not it's worth the effort to work it out.Quote:
Originally Posted by Seeker