Disk Does Not Refresh in My Computer

Hey All, Thanks in advance for this forum, you have helped me in the past.

Now I have a new problem described much better by someone else in another forum, from whom I quote:

On my computer, things are not working so well:

In "My Computer", for every CD/DVD drive, the icon and label displayed are that of the disc that was in when Windows started (or the default icon and label if no disc was in) - changing the disc or removing it doesn't change that (even after a refresh with F5). The size displayed is size of the current disc, though.
When an explorer window is in a folder inside a CD/DVD, and the disc is ejected, the explorer window remains open, and when trying to do something in that window afterwards, Windows complains there is no media.

I've always had this problem and now I am sick of it...I have newest firmware etc for my drives.