Girl Trouble...please help

[grosas9]

Hey, there is this girl that hangs out with us. Ive liked her for a while now. Then another friend of mine started hanging out more often and told her that he wants to go out with her. (he took the first step) I think she like me though cause she tends to hang on me alot (its not wishful thinking) more then him.
How do i try to get the girl without looking like im stepping all over my best friends toes.

[Quiet Thunder]

Maybe you could talk to him about it, and if he's a good friend and sees that you have true feelings for her, maybe he'll back off. But dating friends is always risky, even more so when it becomes a love triangle. Best of luck!

[King Grover]

Yo go up to her and tell her your feelings. Screw your friend. He did it to you , so why should you feel guilty about doing it to him. That's part of the fun of it all. And if you are good friends with this guy, it will not be a problem. I've stolen girls from my friends before after tehy do it o me. It's actually fun to compete over a woman witha good friend. <IMG SRC="smilies/cool.gif" border="0">

[grosas9]

my friend just go over a really bad break up with a girl he really liked. He stopped obsessing over her when he met the current girl. I dont want to destroy him completely. Lets not forget to mention that he is the violent type and i am not. oh yeah, im also incredably shy and its hard enough to get them honestly.

[ßracius]

Your "friend" doesn't sound safe to be around. Take the girl and beat the crap out of him first. Then beat your chest and let out a Tarzan yell

[Morticia Addams]

If he is a real friend then say

Hey man I dig this girl and I want to ask her out. I think she might like me to.
Say I was going to as her out, I just didnt know how I should.

Then I would tell her what you told him.
Then that way nothing is being said behind any ones back.
Girls come and go. Friends are forever, at least the true ones are.
I as a woman would favor the honorable way of the situation by doing whats right.

Good Luck Hope it turns out =)

[kingtbone]

Originally posted by 86Camaro350:
<STRONG>How do i try to get the girl without looking like im stepping all over my best friends toes.</STRONG>

You can't. Try all you like, but it really is impossible to escape from this situation without hard feelings from someone involved.

[Skatman]

Well lets put it this way. Is your friend going steady with this girl as in seriously? If not and he has just asked her out then whats the problem with you asking her out to? If he gets jealous over you asking her out maybe he needs an attitude adjustment.

[opiate]

Just tell'em that your interested in her and you have been for a while. A good friend should move out of your way.

l8rs opiate

[crackbeer]

Threesome!

[cyberhh]

If the two of them are not invlved then tell him your feeling for her and see how he responds. If you just go behind his back and snipe a girl he is interested in it may become resentment later. You may be surprised at his reaction.

[JadedTech]

The easiest thing to do is go to her acting concerned becasue you just learned the your friend has contracted an incredibly virulent STD, and is having psychotic breaks.

Hehe just kidding <IMG SRC="smilies/smile.gif" border="0">


Actually, if your friend was obsessing over his ex, the girl in question will probably get hurt when he starts obsessing about the ex again, or goes back to her. Sounds like a rebound to me.

[amcfreek]

i have had girl freinds ditch me to date my freinds big time , and ive had a freind who alreaddy had a girlfreind do this to me , so i did it right back dated his girl freind , and beleive me if you let it go for too long and you dont take that step,
youlle be history dude

[Cygnus]

If he just got out of a bad relationship then just sit back....he will screw it up for himself before long and that will make you look that much better when you come into the picture...

does that sound evil? <IMG SRC="smilies/cool.gif" border="0">

[Papa Smurf]

Best way is to just approach your mate and ask him he he really like this girl or is just using her to get over his last realtionship.
If he's just using her to get over his last realtionship you stand a very good chance of winning her over.
As from you being the shy type, dont worry about it.Everyone is shy when they 1st meet someone. When you are out on a date just be yourself and dont worry. Worry usually leads to babbling about the strangest stuff, so just go out with her out for a meal, few drinks and have a good time. Try not and put too much pressure on her right away.

Good luck, And keep us posted how you get on.

Cheers
Papa The lurve doctor Smurf