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    Well ****, this question was reworked from the original as the previous one wasn't "open" enough...

    86% did not VS 14% who did, for 43 people who participated.

    Personally, I preferred not to read anything more into this than what it said: the vast majority of people who participated in the poll expressed themselves as not having cheated on a spouse (common law or married) or fiancé(e).


    Like I said previously, there is nothing scientifically sound about this, but if participants choose to lie here - even though their anonymity is fairly well preserved, they could theoretically also lie on national stats quesstionaires, couldn't they?
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    So as with all polls, before you can deduce anything at all (so even remotely 'scientifically') you must have a 'representative sample population' - asking a load of nerdy geeks who waste their time on the net as they often have nothing particularly more pressing/interesting to do strikes me as a sure fire way to get a non-representative result !

    So I'm surprised you picked up on the 'lie to fit' line .. I'd have thought
    .. perhaps nerds have so little chance of 'pulling' that they have to remain faithful ? ..
    was much nearer the mark !

    (laughs muchly to himself as his 'significant other' runs away laughing so hard her bra came undone whilst reading over my shoulder & wonders whether he'll have opportunity to take advantage of this quite unexpected & most welcome spin-off before she goes back to calling me names for answering all my mails on a saturday ..)

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    Just caught my wife cheating.
    She got mad because she was busted.
    I also explained that "Either "'I' will call the guy's wife, or my attorney will.'" She left mad, probably calling the married beau. If he thought it was OK to screw with my family....and end it...I think it's OK to screw with his.

    Once we got married, I never cheated on my wife...unforgivable sin.
    Never took another man's wife.

    Might end up being a very big problem for both of them.

    Anyone know a good rip-*** Divorce Attorney in Pinellas Cty. Fla.?
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    Call the guy's wife. Present your evidence. Do it in such a way as to leave the door open for yourself. You know, you guys can cry over it together and have a few beers. Snag that a few times with pictures, video would be better. You let her know what your up to, she'll probably go along. As soon as your divorce is final, mail copies to the affected parties. Keep a few for yourself. Hell, host it on the internet.

    Eight years of Marriage= $480,000.00

    Divorce court = 1/2 $480,000.00

    Posting a video of you banging your ex-wifes lover's wife= Pricele$$

    Yeah, make sure she gets stuck with the Mastercard bill..
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    Quote Originally Posted by jstut
    Just caught my wife cheating.
    She got mad because she was busted.
    I also explained that "Either "'I' will call the guy's wife, or my attorney will.'" She left mad, probably calling the married beau. If he thought it was OK to screw with my family....and end it...I think it's OK to screw with his.

    Once we got married, I never cheated on my wife...unforgivable sin.
    Never took another man's wife.

    Might end up being a very big problem for both of them.

    Anyone know a good rip-*** Divorce Attorney in Pinellas Cty. Fla.?

    Sorry to hear this jstut. Hope the best for you.
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    Man that sucks.

    I don't get how she could be mad at you for something she did.

    Good luck for the rocky - but not permanently so - times ahead.

    I expect she doesn't have much of a case if she sue's you for support since she was unfaithful, is that right?
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    Quote Originally Posted by a d e p t

    I don't get how she could be mad at you for something she did.
    One of the mechanics that works with my father went through the same thing. He came home to find his girlfriend with her ex boyfriend. The funny thing was that the exboyfriend was really pissed off that he was not able to finish, and took a swing at the guy that walked in. The ex learned never to attack someone that has a lot of anger built up from a VERRRY recent tramatic effect. Lets just say the ex ended up running out of the apartment building with no clothes, a black eye and a swollen jaw. It was the same as Julie taking a swing at Cleetus. How do you think it would turn out?
    Last edited by Camaro80z; October 22nd, 2004 at 07:46 AM.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jstut
    Just caught my wife cheating.
    She got mad because she was busted.
    I also explained that "Either "'I' will call the guy's wife, or my attorney will.'" She left mad, probably calling the married beau. If he thought it was OK to screw with my family....and end it...I think it's OK to screw with his.

    Once we got married, I never cheated on my wife...unforgivable sin.
    Never took another man's wife.

    Might end up being a very big problem for both of them.

    Anyone know a good rip-*** Divorce Attorney in Pinellas Cty. Fla.?
    Dude, that is not cool. I hope it will all turn out well for you in the end.


    Before saying what I would do, I must ask: Do you have any children?

    If so, I would not do anything to make the situation worse between you and your wife. This will end up getting taken out on the kids and that is never good.

    If there are no kids, I say let it all fly. You would not have to see her after this is all over, so some revenge would help put the world back in balance.
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    Also keep in mind if the other guy has kids. He's a scumbag, but his wife probably doesn't deserve to be used for some revenge plot and the kids DEFINITELY do not deserve to have things made any worse than they're already going to be. You need to take at least a few days to stop and cool off before you do anything. But you definitely need to talk to a lawyer ASAP.

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    Sorry to hear it....

    Take care and I hope it all works out for you...

    She does have alot of balls being mad at YOU for it tho!
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    Thanks folks.
    Yes...definatly bites big. No one wins. I have a 10 year old. That's how I found out. She took my sone to the fishing pier, met her beau and his 11 year old son. They split and left the two kids fishing. Cool off? Hey, I'm 43...not enough time for that.
    She's one of those people that figure "The best Defense is a good Offense" Attack cloud the issue and change the subject.
    I'll think over involving the other guys family....Why should I let his butt skate off scott free when he was part of the deed? Sorry. He KNEW she was married, and took the same risk.
    Gonna tell the soon to be ex she might get lucky, and the guys wife will kick him out. Then they can live happily ever after. Satisfaction comes with knowing it is going to cost him as much as this is getting ready to cost me.

    Still formulating...trying to be rational...but at this point, I don't care what the attorney makes. I want some pay-back!
    My son will get it figured out pretty soon, and realize where the fault lies. Not that that helps now.
    Whew. Thanks for letting me vent a bit! Feel better already. Seeing a couple of Attys. Tues.
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    You gotta protect the kid man. As pissed as you are at her, you can't turn him against her. She's still his mother, maybe a lousy person, but it's the only mom he's got.

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    Quote Originally Posted by a d e p t
    I expect she doesn't have much of a case if she sue's you for support since she was unfaithful, is that right?
    Heh, now that would be the logical thing, wouldn't it? In quite a few states, cheating isn't even considered as part of the legal proceedings.
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    Yes meatwad, got to protect my son. (She's been pushing him away from me for a long time - She has a God complex. If he isn't dependent on her completely...she gets pissed at him).
    Fla laws are different I'm sure. I don't believe alimony is an issue...cheating either, other than the aforementioned pay-back. If necessary, I'll hire an investigator to track this guy down.

    I moved here from S.Carolina...if a women got caught cheating, she was "Out the door with her clothes...end of story" Not here.
    Child support is a formula. Mine + hers /3 prorate. Forgot to mention the women quit her good paying job (with a Company Car) in June, because she wanted to take the summer off. She quits...gets a new car...and then hoses me over.
    Her new job makes about 1/3 of her previous salary. If they use last years Tax Records, I'll be OK....this years...I'm hosed again.
    She set me up nicely...cashed her $30,000 in 401-K as well, which I'll get hit with in income tax. Who was it who said earlier "Cool Down"?

    Going down monday to get a forehead tatoo...help me pick it!
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    Dumb son of****** wont fit.
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    Thist just came in from my Mom. 78 years old. I Told her what's going on.
    Son,
    Just be very careful! Scared people, do scarey things. You know that if ANYTHING ever happens to you, Debbie, Paul, Joel, Aunt Virginia and I will put all our assets to work on it. Will also keep you and Kevin in my prayers, and will plead God's angels to watch over you. As the song says "what a difference a day makes". One thing you can count on, your family supports you all the way. I love you. Mother

    Pretty cool in the scheme of things. Ain't moms great?

    By the way, Mels's (STB ex)mom had 5 kids...only two will even talkto her. She lives up the road. Moved here 2 years back, because I was stable and would help out.

    Damn I shouldn't have ignored the warning flags!!!
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