Cheating

[Seeker]

I don't know how to make a poll

So I will just ask...this is for marriage and serious relationships.

If your girlfriend/wife's friend hits (like flat out asks for sex) on you should you...

a) Tell you g/f or wife right away.

b) Tell the friend no...but don't tell your g/f or wife about it.

c) Don't tell you g/f and get with her friend.

And if a guy doesn't tell his g/f about it is he trying to save the "chance" for later?

[gazzak]

Depends which of her friends tries it on

(but on the whole b is best choice I think)

[meatwad]

I would say either a or b.

If you're married, engaged or in a serious relationship, it has to be a I think. You just can't keep something like that. I don't think it's good for the realtionship.

B would probably be ok if it's a new or more casual relationship.

[Cobra X]

Well, that really depends on how much I like my girlfriend, so it's a case by case thing.

[Khazad]

I would say either a or b.

If you're married, engaged or in a serious relationship, it has to be a I think. You just can't keep something like that. I don't think it's good for the realtionship.

B would probably be ok if it's a new or more casual relationship.

my sentiments exactly

[Spork]

I think this is funny that this poll just "happened" to pop up here.

I guess Seeker needs more of a public opinion to order to properly bash people. Kinda sad...

[Seeker]

I think this is funny that this poll just "happened" to pop up here.

I guess Seeker needs more of a public opinion to order to properly bash people. Kinda sad...

Shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh....

No one is talking to you. I am not publicly bashing anyone...what are you talking about?

[Stalemate]

...And if a guy doesn't tell his g/f about it is he trying to save the "chance" for later?

You know, that could just be...

For me, I would tell my wife while the friend was still in the room, as someone I know did.

She told him she was in love with him and didn't know how to deal with those feelings. He got up, went to get his wife, and then came back into the room with her where they had a private and polite conversation.

Problem solved.

[Ya_know]

Is Spork tryin' to hook up with you Seeker? I thought you and him were on the outs cause of all the stink on the forum. Spork's a cool guy, you should hook up with him, his girlfriend, and get us some pictures...

[Cleetus]

In the serious part of a relationship it would depend if there was a lot of alcohol involved. If so, just ignore it. If there was absolutly none involved then you do have a problem that needs to be addressed. Women are super competitive and if you add in the alcohol stupid things happen and slip out. As long as you stay faithful and let her sleep it off, everything should be fine.

Now, at the end of a relationship, why not go for it, esp since she might have those stupid no friends rules afterwards, stupid no freinds rules.

At the beginning, just ignore it, pretty much on the first rules, unless though that you would rather be with her...

[Seeker]

Is Spork tryin' to hook up with you Seeker? I thought you and him were on the outs cause of all the stink on the forum. Spork's a cool guy, you should hook up with him, his girlfriend, and get us some pictures...

I would get with her in a heart beat! But as for him...
No thanks...I pass.

I am not going to drag this to the board. This poll was so I could get an idea of what you guys thought about my question. Nothing else.

[Spork]

Shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh....

No one is talking to you. I am not publicly bashing anyone...what are you talking about?

I never said "publicly", I said "properly".

[Spork]

Is Spork tryin' to hook up with you Seeker? I thought you and him were on the outs cause of all the stink on the forum. Spork's a cool guy, you should hook up with him, his girlfriend, and get us some pictures...

Not trying to get with her one bit. I'm 100% happy with my girlfriend... just wish a certain person would mind their business and worry about themself.

[Seeker]

I never said "publicly", I said "properly".

Don't you have a mad girlfriend some where you should be talking too?

[Cleetus]

Damn you are paranoid or something dude, she is talking to us all of us.