Quote:
Originally posted by kato2274
If I were single and didn't have a son on the way I might completely agree with you, but at this point I have to worry about more than just what makes ME happy. It's all about routine anyway. I'm in one now - I just have to try to get in different one.
I don't want to be "living it up" without a care in the world now, then in ten years be laying with my chest open while doctors are sewing veins from my legs around my heart. seen that too many times from close family (both mine and my wifes) no thanks, I think I'll make some sacrifices now.
Yes I get what your saying I wasnt being intentioaly flippant,I have two teenage kids of my own,the point I was making is that worry in itself can tie you up,great to hear you have a son on the way I have a boy and girl, bringing up kids is one of the best experiences in life, is it your first?:eek2: :sad: