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I wish you the best, and I hope it's over quickly Noo. https://forums.windrivers.com/images.../2005/03/1.gif
Good luck kiddo!
Court? Did I miss something? Hope all goes well! Did you try this?
http://www.stupidvideos.com/Default.asp?VideoID=757 Just press play!
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Just trying to cheer you up-sounds serious. I demand Pardon for our favorite MOD.
Good luck Noo, I tried to get Ya_know to drop the charges but......
OK, I have no idea what I'm talking about, I missed the whole court thread apparently
Hang on a second here,.. what is "OOO there"? Is it a riddle? I am confused.Quote:
Originally Posted by Atodini
Good luck with that Noo,.. I wish you all the best with that.Quote:
Originally Posted by NooNoo
Can anyone help us out? Why is NooNoo goin to court?
"Us"?Quote:
Originally Posted by iceman
3rdfay and I! :thumbs:Quote:
Originally Posted by WebHead
Oh ok. I thought maybe you meant like some kind of Eddie Brock/Venom type of thing. :eek:Quote:
Originally Posted by iceman
HAAA! Dude you really do like the spiderman. :cool:
Well duh! :DQuote:
Originally Posted by iceman
Well if I was Venom you would have my suit before long anyway.
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Originally Posted by iceman
Yup sure...
This was my second court appearance.... let me tell you a story
3 years ago I told my husband that if he didn't quit drinking I would divorce him. 9 weeks later the message sank in and he did quit drinking. When he was sober (as is with most drunks) he was a lovely man, when he was drunk (and still able to stand) he was plain nasty. A couple of times he went for me, but those who know me, know that I am on the large side and know how to use by bodyweight to lift large weights or to become an immovable object. He never did hurt me other than to scratch the back of my hand once.
So forward to last March, he sat me down and told me we were going to get a divorce, that I was the one who was going to leave and that I would be leaving our children in his care and all my assets behind. He would not provide me with any alimony either. So I took advice and that advice was to raise the divorce petition. I did that and he raised one also. He told me that I didn't get it, I was not divorcing him, but he was divorcing me. My petition was further along than his, our respective lawyers got together and husband finally drops his petition.
The next thing that happened is husband decides that he will apply for "residency" of the children... that is to say that he will become the main carer for the children. He attempts to get an order to have me thrown out of the house within 14 days. The judge refuses asking for a Cafcass report. 16 weeks later, here we are at the hearing to discuss the contents of that report.
The report finds that I should remain main carer and that I should remain in the house with the children with husband living nearby for ease of access. Husband is furious. He states the report is flawed and he does not accept its recommendations. Judge points out the various routes open in the event of dispute, the one that made husband's jaw drop and go bright red was the fact that it would take at least 9 months to go down that road as there has to be secondary reports and then everyone has to give evidence.
Oh did I mention that I have refused to move out and husband refused to move out? No? Ok, well we have been living in the same house, sharing the same bedroom since this all started.
Judge mentions mediation. I am all for mediation, husband didn't want mediation.... but then his solicitor whispered to him that it would be seen as obstructive not to take mediation so he is now going for mediation. We go back to court in February with the results of the mediation.
After the court hearing, husband asks to talk to me privately. He says he cannot wait 9 months, he wants it solved now. He therefore is going to leave and continue to pay the mortgage and go and live with his elderly mother. He states he cannot get on with his mother, but he has decided on this course of action to reduce the amount of time he has to live with me.
On explaining all this to my parents, their only comment was "why is he so twitchy about 9 months?" :devil:
So it's not over yet, but it looks like husband is going to accept the inevitable and allow me to finish bringing up our kids in peace.