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Don't be another foole...
Tell her flat out how you feel - you want more from this relationship. If she doesn't want to go that way now, move on. Spend less time with her - she can still be a good friend but at least you know where you stand and you won't make a fool of youself. If she wants to go forward with it, be prepared to sacrifice your job, because one of you will most likely have to sooner or later.
I tell people all the time: strip naked and bend over as far backwards as you can in front of a mirror. Isn't that view attractive??? Now think how the "other" person is viewing you as you bend over backwards trying to please them. Take a dose of self-worth and call me in the morning.
Kind of a wake up call usually. And remember, an attractive person(ality) is the one who seems to be in control of their life. Clean up and follow your own path.
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I am posting for two reasons....
1) Marriage is a wonderful thing when you find the right one. I truly found the right one and it has been better than I ever dreamed of. Mind you, there has been a bump or two, but it we made it and as long as we are honest with each other and we love each other, there aint nothing we cant get through.
2) The person who posted before me needs to change something in his profile because it is showing his name as the path to the avatar he was trying to use at one time!! LOL
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Just be aware ...sexual harrassment is not crap...the way the laws are written, you are guilty till proven innocent......just be careful....
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I've been on both sides of this scenario before, and let me tell you, when I was the b/f before, the other guy (in this case Opiate), , ended up with a very nasty looking black eye and a rather nasty looking nose.
I guess what I'm trying to say is, be careful who's toes you're tramping on!!!!
