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I'm starting to think that you actually like being ablt to play the "woe is me" role. I know what it's like to be single. I currently am and have been from some time now (but in the last couple of weeks i have made alot of headroom). Cleetus is right, this is a busy season, and many people don't have time to breathe. Take your time and don't seem desperate, women seem to be able to sense that. And from what i've seen, follow cleets advice, he seems to be dead on this time.
You are lucky! I can not even get dead hookers to go home with me! :sad:Quote:
Originally Posted by meatwad
I mean, I ran off a girl from this forum by making a couple of comments about us being in the same town. (I'm still sorry Cleetus)
I think you need to go for it. I was sitting with my family this weekend (multiple christamses for divorced families) and this came up. I get a lot of grief because I am the oldest (23) cousin that is not married, and the outlook does not look good. My grandmother was joking to everyone before I got there that I was getting married, and they all thought she was serious. When I told them that it was a hoax ( I have not been on a date in over 3 years), one of my uncles brought up missed chances.
If you do not call her, your mind will build up a fantasy that no one will live up to. You would always think about the one that got away, and feel that you will not get a realtionship that is as good as that would have been. You will be much better off even if she says no than letting this grow unattended in your heart.
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Damn C, I thought webbie had it bad...you got it in spades... :sad:
So you really think you're responsible for Seeker's disappearance? I have news for you, she was just here for the moment. That moment passed, she lost her exalted status because of the whole reevaluation of the Spork incident…and she ceased to be the center of attention…so she moved on. Se wasn’t for you, we were just trying to get you laid, not married anyway!
Take your time, but you gotta at least meet more chicks. I think that’s probably your biggest problem right now, you just don’t get out enough in the appropriate places to meet chicks.
Since Webbie looks like he’s still trying to get this girls #, we should all try to help Camaro figure out where to go to find the best chicks. Myself, I’ve actually found most of my relationships, including my wife, at work. That sucks if you work where the women are tougher than the guys, but most offices have a few hotties worth fraternizing with. Ask Cleetus about that one!
They are all ****ing psycho, run awayQuote:
Originally Posted by Ya_know
Sig, nough said
Hell yeah they are! Run far far away!!Quote:
Originally Posted by Cleetus
I gotta stop and ask you how you date a woman your work with in todays society.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ya_know
I can hear Sexual Harrasment accusations already in my head...
So tell us your secrets, cause there are a few ladies in teh office here that I wouldnt mind seing...
Just talk to them as regular humans, forget the sexual harrasment crap. Treat them llike you would anyone else. If people get together for happy hours, that is the best. Everyone is already unwinding, plus the alcohol and environment lead to better talking. Feel them out.Quote:
Originally Posted by Diver01
Dating at work is actually easy, esp if you are a corporate tech like me. Go to their desk to fix something, tease them, play with them, learn about them. If they are single, pursue it. Do it respectfully, say a lunch or happy hour if they are that type. As a tech, it is just hella easy. Heck, I've dated 3 so far here at the office, and fooled around with a 4th at a happy hour.
I know that I did not drive seeker away. It was implied by the Cleet, and I thought I would run with the joke.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ya_know
As to not meeting girls, you are 100 percent correct. I do not go out, and I very rarely meet new people (especially females). The only time I really meet new people is working at my dad's shop on the weekends, and being covered in grease is not the best way to introduce yourself.
As to the office, It is a sausage party. There is not 1 single girl within 10 years of my age. :sad:
My last job was different. I worked for a marketing company, doing their tech work. I was the only single guy in an office of 20 hot women between the age of 20 - 30 . It was amazing. I got to hang out and be friends with all of these ladies. When we would go somewhere, I got the evil eye from guys thinking "How is he with them?' It was great. Last new years I ended up in a hotel room with 5 beautiful women after the office party! It really sucked when they started talking about the people they were dating and how all men are jerks. I defended myself, and was told " You do not count, you are one of the girls."
There was one (we'll call her Rose) that I thought would have worked out, but I thought she was out of my league. In getting to know her, we had a lot of similar interests (she knew and liked drag racing!). She even was trying to find a guy online, because she was sick of the bar scene. I was signed up on the same site (my buddy firemonkey signed me up as a joke). I went on and checked who it said the 10 best matches were, and she came up. I was afraid of dating a co-worker, since I really liked the job. They ended up closing the office and we were all laid off. I never made the move, and I am still kicking myself for it.
Webby, don't be like me.
Yes, if we get another Seeker, for god's sake, don't run her offQuote:
Originally Posted by Camaro80z
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Originally Posted by Cleetus
I agree with you Cleetus, and that is what made my last job so great. I was able to do all of the same things, except for the last step. I was just not confident enough to pull the trigger, and now have no chance here. Damn I miss that place. :thumbs:
Well, I could post some of the PM's I have to prove otherwise, but I will be more of a gentleman than that! :devil:Quote:
Originally Posted by Cleetus
Thanks Ya_know. Yeah,.. I'm gonna get this done, but it might take some time. There is a new years party to go to and she might be there. I'll post as soon as something positive happens with all this. Now then,.. time to shift the focus over to Camaro. :DQuote:
Originally Posted by Ya_know
Welcome to the WinDrivers Dating Service. :p
Ha! Richard should set that up and charge $19.99 per month. It should be a system to match up tech dorks who can't talk to chicks, with hot russian models. It would be a hit. :DQuote:
Originally Posted by a d e p t