Thank you Ya_know, despite our massive differences, I do consider you a good friend and would love to buy you a beer one day.
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Thank you Ya_know, despite our massive differences, I do consider you a good friend and would love to buy you a beer one day.
You're GD right! I'm a cheep bastard, and I expect nothing less then free beer from my friends, that's how I pick them... :thumbs:Quote:
Originally Posted by Cleetus
Hey numbnutz .. which part of your own advice is too hard to follow ? :pQuote:
Originally Posted by Ya_know
My mediation has substance. Trip's is more like the I just won a million dollars off of the brutality of racial cops quote from Rodney King: "Can't we all just get along?". Has no substance, but it's parroted quite annoyingly…Quote:
Originally Posted by confus-ed
EDIT: Well Confused, you coming to the table, or do I have to boot_ya in the a$$???
https://forums.windrivers.com/
When I asked about Mod Wars little did I realize I'd see one the next day! Get out the popcorn boys it's gonna be a good'un! :mult:
Antisocial Personality Disorder is chronic, beginning in adolescence
and continuing throughout adulthood. There are ten general
symptoms:
not learning from experience - I learn that my way is right
no sense of responsibility - I didn't do anything wrong
inability to form meaningful relationships - I love myself?
inability to control impulses - I pooped my pants
lack of moral sense - I like young boys
chronically antisocial behavior - Punk music rules
no change in behavior after punishment - I wasn't wrong
emotional immaturity - I said poop
lack of guilt - You have to be wrong to be guilty
self-centeredness - Its so hard being a God
Errr so huh ? I've been here all the time, its you two go off in sulks & make a big performance when you are having a boo, its this easy with most people, give them pooh & you'll get some back, I just happen to be better at the giving back bit than either of you & for some reason that's a problem ?Quote:
Originally Posted by Ya_know
Cletus better add a number 11 (though I think thats actually Young Chow Fried Rice :D) - not knowing when you are outclassed ! :butt: :devil: :thumbs2:
Don't break your arm pattin' yourself on the back. :grin:Quote:
Originally Posted by confus-ed
Tell me something, what makes you so sure you're winning? :grin:
I didn't mean you .. are you another one thinks the world revolves around him ? .. (get some therapy dude :p) I meant Cleetus reporting me about fifty times for 'stalking'Quote:
Originally Posted by Ya_know
& there's no 'winning' you idiot this is all subjective :p
I declare myself winner and an end to hostilities! https://forums.windrivers.com/images.../2005/02/1.gif
BRILLIANT!
So this is about me trying to be "adult" and using your very own method of reporting?
Honestly this is the funniest evar the more I think this through, it is confus-ed pretty much projecting his own faults on me.
Go on keep at it, you are running exactly true to form .. Adepts diagnosis is perfect & your list of symptoms is pooh ! :p It now needs a number 12 (That's egg foo yung btw) & that needs to readQuote:
Originally Posted by Cleetus
Reverse blame to absolve self
Just admit your faults, and everything will be ok. You don't have to project them on to any of us anymore.
I freely admit mine, you can too. Come on, everything will be ok.
So does anyone else have any differing diagnoses of my hidden agendas and horrid behaviors?
Please, help me help myself.
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Profile of a Sociopath
A number of mind-manipulating cult leaders may exhibit many of the behavioral characteristics of a sociopath--an outstanding ability to charm and seduce followers. Since they appear apparently normal, they are not easily recognizable as deviant or disturbed. Although only a trained professional can make a diagnosis, it is important to be able to recognize the personality type in order to avoid further abuse. These traits also apply to a one-on-one cultic relationship.
Glibness/Superficial Charm
Language can be used without effort by them to confuse and convince their audience. Captivating storytellers that exude self-confidence, they can spin a web that intrigues others. Since they are persuasive, they have the capacity to destroy their critics verbally or emotionally.
Manipulative and Conning
They never recognize the rights of others and see their self-serving behaviors permissible. They appear to be charming, yet are covertly hostile and domineering, seeing their victim as merely an instrument to be used. They dominate and humiliate their victims.
Grandiose Sense of Self
Feels entitled to certain things as "their right." Craves adulation and attendance. Must be the center of attention with their own fantasies as the "spokesman for God," "enlightened," "leader of humankind," etc. Creates an us-versus-them mentality
Pathological Lying
Has no problem lying coolly and easily and it is almost impossible for them to be truthful on a consistent basis. Can create, and get caught up in, a complex belief about their own powers and abilities. Extremely convincing and able to pass lie detector tests.
Lack of Remorse, Shame or Guilt
A deep seated rage, which is split off and repressed, is at their core. Does not see others around them as people, but only as targets and opportunities. Instead of friends, they have victims and accomplices who end up as victims. The end always justifies the means and they let nothing stand in their way.
Shallow Emotions
When they show what seems to be warmth, joy, love and compassion, it is more feigned than experienced and serves an ulterior motive. Outraged by insignificant matters, yet remaining unmoved and cold by what would upset a normal person. Since they are not genuine, neither are their promises.
Incapacity for Love
While they talk about "God's love" they are unable to give or receive it. Since they do not believe in the genuineness of their followers' love, they are very harsh in testing it from their devotees and expect them to feel guilt for their failings. Expects unconditional surrender.
Need for Stimulation
Living on the edge, yet testing the beliefs of their followers with bizarre rules, punishments and behaviors. Verbal outbursts and physical punishments are normal.
Callousness/Lack of Empathy
Unable to empathize with the pain of their victims, having only contempt for others' feelings of distress and readily taking advantage of them. Their skills are used to exploit, abuse and exert power. Since the follower cannot believe their leader would callously hurt them, they rationalize the behavior as necessary for their (or the group's) own "good" and deny the abuse. When devotees become aware of the exploitation it feels like a "spiritual rape" to them.
Poor Behavioral Controls/Impulsive Nature
Rage and abuse, alternating with small expressions of love and approval produce an addictive cycle for abuser and abused, as well as creating hopelessness in the victim. Believe they are all-powerful, all-knowing, entitled to every wish, no sense of personal boundaries, no concern for their impact on others. The followers only see them as near perfect.
Early Behavior Problems/Juvenile Delinquency
Usually has a history of behavioral and academic difficulties, yet "gets by" by conning others. Problems in making and keeping friends; aberrant behaviors such as cruelty to people or animals, stealing, etc.
Irresponsibility/Unreliability
Not concerned about wrecking others' lives and dreams. Oblivious or indifferent to the devastation they cause. Does not accept blame themselves, but blame their followers or others outside their group. Blame reinforces passivity and obedience and produces guilt, shame, terror and conformity in the followers.
Promiscuous Sexual Behavior/Infidelity
Totalist leaders frequently practice promiscuity, child sexual abuse, rape and sexual acting out of all sorts. This is usually kept hidden from all but the inner circle. Stringent sexual control of their followers, such as forced breakups and divorces, removal of children from parents, rules for dating, etc.
Lack of Realistic Life Plan/Parasitic Lifestyle
Tends to move around a lot or makes all encompassing promises for the future. Many groups claim as their goal world-domination or other utopian promises. Great contrast between the leader's opulent lifestyle and the followers' impoverishment. Support by gifts and donations from the followers who are pressured to give through fear and guilt. Highly sensitive to their own pain and health.
Criminal or Entrepreneurial Versatility
Changes their image and that of the group as needed to avoid prosecution and to increase income and to recruit a range of members. Is able to adapt or relocate as needed to preserve the group. Can resurface later with a new name, a new front group and a new twist on the scam.
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Other Related Qualities:
Contemptuous of those who seek to understand them
Does not perceive that anything is wrong with them
Authoritarian
Secretive
Paranoid
Only rarely in difficulty with the law, but seeks out situations where their tyrannical behavior will be tolerated, condoned, or admired
Conventional appearance
Goal of enslavement of their victim(s)
Exercises despotic control over every aspect of the victim's life
Has an emotional need to justify their crimes and therefore needs their victim's affirmation (respect, gratitude and love)
Ultimate goal is the creation of a willing victim
Incapable of real human attachment to another
Unable to feel remorse or guilt
Extreme narcissism and grandiose
May state readily that their goal is to rule the world
The above traits are based on the psychopathy checklists of H. Cleckley and R. Hare. In the 1830's this disorder was called "moral insanity." By 1900 it was changed to "psychopathic personality." More recently it has been termed "antisocial personality disorder."