I NEED A DRIVER!

I must have one of the WORST modems ever made, a conexant. This modem is a conexant model # f-1156IV/r2. I downloaded the listed driver from gvc, but it will not let me dial, furthermore, its country code is for Australia! To add insult to injury, 98SE tells me "This driver was not written specifically for this device..." Ok, so NOW what? I must have 15 different conexant drivers, and each one "is not writen specifically for this device...". I did get one of the drivers to give me a response.. (A blue screen, but hey, it was a response). The drivers DO recognize the modem, and I get AT signatures, but no dialing, no telephony, no internet connection. So, anyone got any bullets?