Try this: Under tools/customize, go to the commands tab. Under the File command, you should have listed both "Mail Recipient" and "Mail Recipient (as Attachment)" You should be able to drag and drop these to the File menu under Send To, or whereever else you want to put them.

I know you said this was a clean install of xp. Did you install sp1? You could also try repairing or reinstalling outlook express. See this link for doing this in xp http://support.microsoft.com/default...78&Product=oex