Any advice?

[Kymera]

Originally posted by iamtheman:
CD,

I don't know about you boys from Philly but in Jersey we all head to the shore to party. Seaside is crazy on prom weekends.

The Jersey shore?! That was way, way uncool, even for my Prom. Most of us hung out in the city around Times Square, pretty trendy for a bunch of 17 year olds. I find the Jersey shore reeks, and who wants to hang out in 50 degree, smelly, mud brown water? I'm from Jersey, so this isn't a flame, just a very unfortunate fact.

[n8dawg]

hit dem skinz lol sorry had to do it just dont get her pregnate

[Elbatcho]

Hey I live in Ambler so I could drop by and do the silly Monkey dance, girls love that.

Really, have fun, keep the conversation light, don't try to hard to be funny or smart or impresive. Treat her like a princess, open all doors for her, stand up when she leaves the table, give her your arm when you are walking and escort her, compliment her on her dress, make up, perfume, tell her how good she looks, if you get caught looking at her say you can't help it because she is so beautiful, make sure she is happy, dance when she wants to dance, and always ask her permission to kiss her.

[Kymera]

Originally posted by Elbatcho:
. . . always ask her permission to kiss her.

You were doing great up to here. If the moment is right, go for it. Don't spoil what could be a very special moment for the both of you by asking if it's okay to kiss her. That will bring everything to a screeeching halt, the moment will turn awkward, and you'll lose your momentum. Carpe diem.

[Elbatcho]

Originally posted by Kymera:
You were doing great up to here. If the moment is right, go for it. Don't spoil what could be a very special moment for the both of you by asking if it's okay to kiss her. That will bring everything to a screeeching halt, the moment will turn awkward, and you'll lose your momentum. Carpe diem.

Yeah your right but if you do it the right way then you come off as a gentalman, the worst feeling in the world is to go for a goodnight kiss and get denied. However if your in a situation and you feel like it is going to happen go for it, sometimes it happens sometime you have to ask. When my girlfriend an I first kissed, we were tickling each other and then it just happend, but if nothing had of happend that night I was going to take her down to a nice spot and take her hand and just tell her I had storng feelings for her and I would like nothing better at this time to kiss her to show her how I felt because words could explain it. Yes it's sappy and it not like my normal playfull monkeyboy self but around my girl I get like that.

[Kymera]

I'll let you in on a little secret . . . unless you're a really bad date, there's little chance you'll get turned down for a goodnight kiss. If you're not getting a kiss it'll be very, very obvious, because having to turn someone down is very embarrassing for everyone.
Okay, I see your plan Elbatcho. In that scenario, asking for a kiss will work but silently moving in for the kill will work too. It's just as bad to have someone say no, as to have the mouth flinch away from yours. I get chills just thinking about that particular scenario.

BTW, I think it's sweet that you're all luvvy-duvvy with your woman. You're just a big cuddle-bunny at heart and Cobra will kick your soft behind at the Pay-per-view.

[Elbatcho]

Originally posted by Kymera:
I'll let you in on a little secret . . . unless you're a really bad date, there's little chance you'll get turned down for a goodnight kiss. If you're not getting a kiss it'll be very, very obvious, because having to turn someone down is very embarrassing for everyone.
Okay, I see your plan Elbatcho. In that scenario, asking for a kiss will work but silently moving in for the kill will work too. It's just as bad to have someone say no, as to have the mouth flinch away from yours. I get chills just thinking about that particular scenario.

BTW, I think it's sweet that you're all luvvy-duvvy with your woman. You're just a big cuddle-bunny at heart and Cobra will kick your soft behind at the Pay-per-view.

I see what your are saying and it makes sense, noting should kill that one special moment.

Yeah I know Cobra is going to pound his number one ex lackey into the ground, but at least I will go down with everyone knowing I could be nice when I wanted too. Man it's sad no one is backing me.

[Kymera]

No ElB, you've got it all wrong. I am rooting for you, to lose, but I'm behind you 100% (to lose). So good luck.

[opiate]

1. Slam bout 3 of your most favorite beers...
2. Pick her up at her crib (don't wreck)...
3. Be very gentlemen like, open doors, pay for what ever she wants, hold her hand, etc etc...
4. Tell her how beautiful she is and how much you'd like to (insert action here) her...
5. Dance for a while, go to the after parties...
6. Keep kissing her $ss and keep paying for what ever she wants...
7. Tell her how much you want to (insert action here) her...
8. Duck so she doesn’t hit you...



Just Kidding CD! Good luck to you my friend and remember, proms are memories you will never forget, so make it a good one...

[Radical Dreamer]

Sweet! I just had my senior prom a short while back, I opted for my dads 1973 Triumph spitfire MKIV instead of the whole Limo thing. We at the Hawks Nest (restraunt overlooking the new river gorge, and the bridge...longest arch bridge in the world!)

We didnt drink at all, neither of us drink too often.

Sucking the helium out of the balloons is funny.

Spend more time with her than you do with your buddies.

If you dont ask her to dance every dance, believe you me you will hear about it

Remember your raincoat....you know what I mean...

Hmmmm.....I cant think of anything else.

By the by, is this your first prom?

[Radical Dreamer]

Originally posted by Kymera:
You were doing great up to here. If the moment is right, go for it. Don't spoil what could be a very special moment for the both of you by asking if it's okay to kiss her. That will bring everything to a screeeching halt, the moment will turn awkward, and you'll lose your momentum. Carpe diem.

I'll have to disagree on this one, the first time I kissed my girlfriend, I asked her, and found out from her friend that she really appreciated it. It may make the mood a little awkward for a few min, but it will be worth it.

[weich]

Originally posted by CreepingDeath:
actually the prom is in lansdale ( suburbs )

Good god!!!! i live in Lansdale, and I work over by New Hope(Peddler's Village, MIS Dept. though). Where is the prom being held, and where are you going for dinner?

[Mr_Miyagi]

have a bath
wear deodorant
dont eat onions or garlic
...keep yer fingers crossed but don't be too forward!

IMHO

[ilovetheusers]

These are the most amazing posts. You think that we weren't all a bunch on computer geeks after reading these. Dang. I think you asked how to have fun but this seems to have turned into how to get you laid forum.

Everyones said it but I'll say it again:

The prom and a few drinks are like panty peeler as long as you don't blow it. As said before don't talk about computers - it's like putting sleeping pills in her drink and making her wear a chastity belt. Just keep telling her how great she looks and you'll do fine.

Don't take her to your van down by the river. You'll scare her.

[GirlGeek]

Originally posted by Elbatcho:
Hey I live in Ambler so I could drop by and do the silly Monkey dance, girls love that.

Really, have fun, keep the conversation light, don't try to hard to be funny or smart or impresive. Treat her like a princess, open all doors for her, stand up when she leaves the table, give her your arm when you are walking and escort her, compliment her on her dress, make up, perfume, tell her how good she looks, if you get caught looking at her say you can't help it because she is so beautiful, make sure she is happy, dance when she wants to dance, and always ask her permission to kiss her.

No wonder she said yes!